I may get blasted by Fet Life's owner, John Baku, for listing Fet Life as a "top" BDSM dating site.
Think of it as a Facebook for kinky folks, and you've got a pretty good idea as to how the underground yet well-populated site works.
Joining our free, fun and friendly dating site really is a piece of cake.
Simply sign up with a few details and get instant access to thousands of singles in your local area and the whole of the UK.
Belfast Telegraph Dating is an online dating service that'll help you find and connect with people like you.
Our goal is simple - to add love, romance and fun to the lives of single people.
Baku has recently asked the membership however if folks would like a location-based feature, where you can see where other kinksters are in relation to your own location (like many SMS dating sites already do) so it may prove favorable for members wanting to find love, or at least a play partner nearby.Do you prefer to 'turn' big strong men into submissives, doing exactly as you tell them to and enjoy the power and control of such a (usually) strong powerful man, or do you prefer the shyer, smaller framed man, to control and pander to your every sexual desire? I am aggressive both in and out of the bedroom, so an A type personality isn't for me. I believe this not an uncommon fantasy some men have? she chuckles deviously......thinks about putting a few bandaids on his chest next time for good measure..... I like the strong silent type of guy, but he's gotta have a backbone and his own opinions. According to About.com's Guide to Sexuality, BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadim and masochism. ) For anyone looking to date with a BDSM slant, you probably already have a good idea as to what the term means and where you fit into the spectrum.If not, that's acceptable too, since most reputable BDSM personals offer some information and basic information about the lifestyle.